Posted by
Camarco on Friday, May 15, 2009 4:19:58 PM
The very term 'gay marriage' is essentially an oxymoron. Taken literally it would mean 'a homosexual union between a man and a woman'! That the term 'marriage' (or some foreign language equivalent of it) properly refers to a special type of union between a man and a woman is NOT merely MY opinion or MY belief; it is the virtually universal understanding of people of ALL cultures throughout ALL of human history. And just as you cannot change a dog into a cat just by calling it one, you cannot change a homosexual relationship (or any other relationship) into a marriage just by calling it one either! Marriage customs have of course varied somewhat from culture to culture and at different periods of history, but marriage has never been understood by any major world culture to refer to any sort of a relationship between people of the same sex! The homosexual activists ( and the courts!) can say whatever they want, but there will never be any such thing as a 'gay marriage', because that would refer to a homosexual union between a man and a woman, which is clearly impossible! And if the homosexual activists take the view that it is okay to arbitrarily redefine words to serve their own controversial purposes, why don't we who oppose them change the word 'gay' back to its original meaning of 'happy and frolicsome'? Given that definition of the word I heartily approve of gay marriages, but have lot of reservations about gay homosexuals! And one final point: the oft repeated claim that homosexuals are somehow 'discriminated against' or denied their 'equal rights' in this country because they are not allowed to get married is misleading at best, because the truth is that a homosexual man in the United States, like any other single man in the United States, is legally free to marry any woman he chooses, so long as she herself is of age, is single, and is willing to give her consent! And the same of course applies to homosexual women: If they choose to stop practicing homosexuality and to marry some eligible young man, no law will prevent them from doing so! So it is plain to see that, as a matter of law, homosexuals already have the same marriage rights as anyone else in the country does! The fact that the types of peculiar and unnatural relationships which they seem to prefer are not commonly referred to as 'marriages' is properly an issue of custom and semantics rather than one of law, since, as I have already pointed out, arbitrarily (or even legally) changing the meaning of a word does NOT change the nature of the thing referred to, otherwise some court could change a dog into a cat simply by changing the legal definitions of the words! ...But a more slippery slope could scarcely even be imagined than to start allowing courts to arbitrarily change the meanings of well understood and universally accepted words! Given that degree of authority the courts may well someday choose to arbitrarily redefine the words 'life, liberty, and happiness' to be legally synonymous with the words 'death', 'slavery', and 'misery'! (Wouldn't that be nice!?). No, we must INSIST, as though our lives, our liberties, and our abilities to meaningfully communicate depended upon it, that at least certain very important words (like the word 'MARRIAGE') retain their fixed and traditional meanings. Why? ...Because our lives, our liberties, and our abilities to meaningfully communicate with each other DO depend upon it!